The other day while browsing for material to read and gander at. An article came across that was so riveting it had me actual spend some time searching for some personal answers.
Things that in reality are really important to know about yourself. Even if that means you spend a decade figuring it out, which of course I never hope that on anyone.
Eventually the questions that deserve answers will be found.
Why these Questions?
Well, this is a very valid point as to why the list here is even going to exist.
Reflection my friends.
See, by doing this one-act a minimal amount of time every single day can literally transform your perspective.
Friends if you can alter your perspective and get a grasp on managing that. Well, your on your way to much bigger things then you can even imagine.
Reflection leads to Perspective.
No, this might not be a fact nor have I even tried looking that up. But, I am someone who believe in logic and when I say things out loud if they make sense logically they probably just make sense.
So my point is when I say that little sentence, “Reflection leads to Perspective.”
I am saying that merely because for me, it works. So I figured why in the world would I not share such a valuable and helpful piece of advice that has actually benefit me.
Lets transform Together
Sometimes for people doing things alone can be not just scary but, it can literally stop that person from actually doing it.
Fear is not to be underestimated and also not to be judged.
It’s so vital in today’s age we reach out, we lend a hand and we show grace for everyone.
With the diversity that has been created through all the negativity, it is more important not than it ever has been, too come together.
If you feel inside your gut that the person you are looking at needs some encouragement or a hug. Give them love, give them what they deserve as a human being.
Let’s just remember one things before we move forward.
Once Mark Twain said these words and quiet honestly there might not be anything more powerful or fitting for what we deal with in today’s world.
“KINDNESS IS THE LANGUAGE WHICH THE DEAF CAN HEAR AND THE BLIND CAN SEE.”
What a powerful perspective right?
TIME TO GET HONEST & TO THE POINT
Whether you like it or not, you are like no one else
It is important that the first thing you know about yourself is that your unique and beautifully made.
Whatever weird thing you are into your allowed. You are aloud to be however corky you want.
You can dance in the street with short and sandals in the middle of winter. If that is what you want to do! You might freeze your rear off but, you will be you!
So take the time to sit down, really embrace and fall in the fact that you are the only you on the planet.
So gosh darn-it smile about that.
You are Loved
Some days can be tough. So tough, that some people actually think about ending their life.
The lack of expression in love is harming our society.
The importance of understand, appreciating and knowing with conviction that you are loved.
Now I have no idea who you have in your life or who you hold close. In fact the people you do might be harming you in ways you don’t even understand. We will get to that.
Remember that even when you have no body and there is not a soul around, at the moment. I would encourage you to do one thing, walk to the mirror and take a hard look at you.
Look hard. Tell yourself, “I love you.”
In moments of desperation and feeling low or not loved. It’s important to remember that we are allowed to love ourselves and that it is more powerful than anyone else ever-loving you.
Does being loved feel good? Of course.
Does it solve your problem of feeling loved? Maybe.
If that person were to go or simply when they do, what then? Who will love you then?
Do you see the importance of, self-love?
Know this about yourself my beautiful friend. Loving you first and knowing how to love yourself is truly filling.
The encouragement to try is massive.
Power of Perspective
Okay now these things that are being listed might seem strange or simply unorthodox too you. That is honestly 100% okay and you can continue the read and find value or not.
The idea here is to give perspective.
This being the third on the list which was intentional. Third time is a charm is literally why I went with it.
Perspective to me is charming. It literally changes lives and is powerful enough to alter someone complete lifestyle.
Is that crazy? Of course it sounds crazy but, if you back it up with hard work after placing the perspective where it goes.
You guys! You can learn so dang much more about yourself when you learn to shift perspective.
Will you nail it every time? Probably not. I hope you do but, in reality we all have to fail a shit load of times before we even win once.
Is it worth putting the effort into actually training your mind? YES! A million times yes!
Think about it and perhaps come back and we can chat thru commentary and be genuinely real with one another.
Abraham Lincoln said, “We can complain that rose bushes have thorns or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.”
Figuring out Passion
Whew! This one is tough for a lot of people. Some are blessed to figure out they are made to build rocket ships when they are 5 years old.
Some are sixty and have literally never discovered one passion they had.
Could you imagine living a life without a passion for one thing?
I mean even the simplest of a passion for tea or your kids..
Passion can be found with anything and that is what is so incredibly magical about it. You get to decide your indefinite love for something.
The one things you will not negotiate on or give up.
You know that is inside of you, right? You know that there is some type of fire living inside that is burning.
SO if you get frequent stomach aches or feel low for no apparent reason. Truth is something is trying to come out.
Sit with yourself and try to dig it out, try and find the thing you can not live without.
Because once passion is discovered, success isn’t far when you put in the work. Success does not need to be money or fancy things,
Success thru passion can simply be having a healthy family that laughs and enjoys life every single day. For some, that is all they will ever need and all they can not live without.
Did you know that the human brain has the memory storage which is equivalent of more than four terabytes on a hard drive?
That is intense and insane to actually think about.
Can you imagine if we actually used all that storage and filled it with things that are feeding our brains instead of stealing energy from it with doubt or bad food?
You are incredibly capable of anything you put your mind to. I know that sounds cliché and all but it’s the truth.
What we tell ourselves becomes our reality and our reality becomes what we live.
Gross. Who wants to live anything other than a happy and full life?
You deserve to live your best life. You deserve to fulfill your dreams and aspirations.
Give yourself the chance to find your true capability by challenging yourself.
By doing so time after time you will surely figure out your capabilities that are strong or weak. You do not need to be good at everything you just need to know that your capable of them.
Believe in yourself and the rest will follow.
You are your company
Keeping this short and sweet.
Knowing your environment is crucial.
Why? There is a saying and I would be surprised if you had not heard it or read it.
“You are the average of the FIVE people you spend the most time with.”
Now can I claim this is fact? Well surely I personally can’t but, if you think hard about it. It makes total sense.
You are in control of this and it’s up to you too decided how much you value your environment and the impact it makes on you.
If your okay with average, that’s great! Because that is apart of you.
Do you understand? Are you really letting this sink in?
The power YOU have with the proper set up, creates endless possibility.
Doesn’t that sound, so good?
So give it a shot, really put effort behind this. Think long and hard about how you want your life to be.
Once you narrow that down you are on your way to filtering your environment.
Giving space for people and things that humbly help you launch forward.
Sounds good, yeah?
You’ll never know until you try.